I don't remember how old I was, but I remembered someone once told me that if you do not find love here in this life, then you will find it in Heaven. And as a kid, I never gave it much thought. We all think that we will just grow up and find the really nice person that makes you happy. But is that why we wait forever to make the decision, or to find her or him in this life? What if your soulmate is lost in the crowd? Well, are you unlucky in love? This may be why...
When we come to earth, we make contracts with other souls to complete a lesson or learning that we needed. Sometimes, that includes finding out that the one that we love in Heaven is meeting us on Earth. We think that this is a good idea. And we find out later that it is not always our soulmate that we contract with to be here. Some women love unconditionally and never receive it back. Some men love without bounds and never see it returned. I believe that my soul contract to marry did not happen with the man I was meant to and for a good reason. So, I never met my own soulmate physically on earth. Never saw him. But perhaps in the Hereafter, there is someone waiting from his side to meet me on Heaven's staircase, halfway.
Now, just a reminder that you do not have to be personally perfect. People go through the ringer with out lives and loves. Some are here and gone and then find out that the finding love in their lives on Earth was in vain. Eventually, they come Home and see that the girl they always wanted is in Heaven watching over until the last day. This occurred in a reading that I had today. And the soul that came through was nearly apologetic for the way that he had to tell his brother and sister in law that he was always in love, but it took his passing on to see that it was with the girl in his life in Spirit was there all the time watching over him, Until death, and then fully reunited. He saw her as a friend before he left for earth, and then she became his girl. Now he is with her in Heaven.
That is how it happens sometimes, if you can never get a break in this life, and the spouse leaves or the wedding is called off, it seems tragic here. But wait, if it never seems to pan out, then you may be wondering why. And it may be that your own soul is preventing it due to the wonderful person at your side in Spirit. You still have a concurrent life in Spirit running at the same time as it is here on earth. And all the benefits of love that goes with it.
I want to tell you to not give up. Keep looking. But if you are older, and the life you have is closing, or if you feel sad for your spouse that died, it is ok to love yourself until Love finds you. Someone in Heaven will be much more fun and loving. And that soul that loved you from Heaven is proud that you made it through all of it. And that you may be saving the best for last.
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