First let's start with the fact that not everyone is with their family this Christmas. I think all of you who are reading are missing someone significant in your life. And you are not alone. I am as well. I have friends in Spirit who are helping me. And I have a family that is mostly gone to Heaven. My mother is still here and some family, but I also have a teenage daughter that is necessarily with her dad at the moment. Today is Christmas and I was asked by a special soul to write this for you.
How do you feel now when you are told that Heaven is closer than you think? I hope you understand that as a soul in Heaven, they are missing you, too. They grieve the same, and they sigh and wonder if we are going to be okay this year. Also, they have the ability to touch us, but not to feel the warmth of your shirt or the hair on your head. Most of all, they feel the sorrow that you are feeling as that permeates the bond between you. It harms a soul to see you so heavily hurt, because, let's face it, they cannot bring you home and you can't run to them for comfort. I want to tell you that from their perspective, you are the one that makes their day shine bright if you would be so good and feel the love you have for them instead of the loss.
I have a friend that lost her son, and her husband. She is beside herself this year. Another friend of mine has lost her son and her mother. The greif must be unbearable at times. Friends or clients, they are all suffering from one form of loss or another. But to have someone missing from the family dinner table is the hardest of all. Even with family that are still alive but are unable to spend Christmas with you that it feels like it will be forever until you see them again. And yet you know that it is inevitable, that we will be reunited.
But another Christmas is here, it seems that it is harder today than most days. And that may seem like a tough analogy, because the ones we miss the way I miss my daughter today, that are still alive, and yet unable to hug her, and smell her hair and wipe away her tears. But as the souls have explained to me, you will see her too, the same way, and at some future time that each of us will be reunited that time is just an illusion to us here. We won't understand that until we reach their presence and understanding. Not seeing someone on earth alive is almost no different when we lose someone to Heaven, that eventually we will see them and feel them and hold them again. In fact, we are all scheduled to see each other again. But, It is not the date or time that matters. It is the suffering that is from the day they leave us and the day we see them again. Yes, it is difficult, but hold on to your happiness with them.
Many of us feel the need to suffer endlessly just to show the meaningful relationship was there. That does not do a soul any good to feel that you lost them and that you cannot continue your life. It actually makes them miserable. Other families feel the pain of loss differently. They know that we will be together, but the part that hurts is that you have to wait longer than anticipated. And that always hurts the worst. I wish I could explain that the timing is right to give you your loved one back. To come here to Earth, is to love the ones that you are with, and to take a journey until we are all reunited in Heaven. We have each had to go through losses, those that go before us, lost people too. So believe me, they understand your feelings, and those that have not lived a full long life, they feel you. They sit and feel your feelings along with their own. So, by request from Heaven, please try not to cry forever. Have patience and wait for them as if they took a cruise around the world. That loved one needs to see you happy again, and share the love they have for you once more.
The souls in Heaven are willing to listen to you in your heaviest cry to your softest silence. They hear your thoughts, and hurt for you as well. This Christmas, and whenever you can, try to give them what they would give you if they could, a memory of the happiness you shared. Something that makes you smile or laugh, and gives you back the love that you have for yourself, them and others. Sorrow has its place too, but to weep too long each day is not helping them or showing them love.
Remember, for them to be close to you, it follows that they feel every painful emotion. Your heart breaking is not helping them heal, or bringing them joy. For their sake, try to make yourself happy again, and ask them what they wanted for Christmas. I can tell you already, it was to make you happy.
Bringing family close to you to gather for the holiday, or even if you are completely alone, they are asking this Christmas and always to have you happy, and cheerful. If you could just remember that they are near. In the room with you while you open your gifts, or while you are cooking a meal, or reading or watching that Christmas movie again for the 100th time, it is there that they see you, hear you, feel your emotions and wonder if you are ready to see them again. How do I know this? I am a Psychic Medium, and I speak to Heaven. And they answer. My question to them is how to we help overcome their loss? Tell them that we are right there with them. Overwhelmingly, we are near. And when the holiday rolls around, we are with them the most. The Veil is thinnest, some people say. But the souls know what you need is their hug even if you are unaware of the presence of that soul, they know you will find out eventually that they are right here with you.
Do not be afraid to see them in your heart sitting at the table with you, or watching you as you are listening to Christmas music. They are still alive, in another realm, and that Kingdom has special times and presents too. Your homecoming will be one of them. But for now, bring them joy, and make the best day you can out of the ashes that you have seen. Find them in your heart, and love them always. You love them and they love you. No one or distance or time can change that. They are near. They are closer than you think.
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Anne St. John is a psychic medium and an author. For private appointments via Zoom conference, phone or FaceTime, visit www.AnneStJohn.com to book an appointment.
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